The Gift is to the Giver

Years ago a dear friend gave me a plaque that reads:  “The gift is to the giver.” This sentiment has helped me tremendously, especially when I have gone through tough times like my divorce and Bobby’s death. Yes, I was miserable and in a lot of pain. But I found that it really helps to do something incredibly nice for others. It takes my mind off my issues for a while and puts me in project mode, where I have to stay focused to make this party happen, organize that trip, arrange that surprise. And it brings me joy to bring joy to others.